{"id":1566,"date":"2010-10-22T08:43:36","date_gmt":"2010-10-22T06:43:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/?p=1566"},"modified":"2010-10-22T08:57:38","modified_gmt":"2010-10-22T06:57:38","slug":"tacere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/2010\/10\/22\/tacere\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u0103cere"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cemi rafinez t\u0103cerea. O diversific, t\u0103cere de birou, de strad\u0103, de dormitor, de petrecere, de diminea\u0163\u0103, de sear\u0103. Prea mul\u0163i oameni tac ca pro\u015ftii. Nu po\u0163i s\u0103 taci \u00een fa\u0163a unui ceai a\u015fa cum o faci \u00een fa\u0163a unui pahar de vin, \u00een primul caz \u00ee\u0163i trebuie o anumit\u0103 gravitate \u00een a nu spune nimic, la cel de-al doilea po\u0163i s\u0103 p\u0103strezi lini\u015ftea un pic mai vesel.<\/p>\n<p>Cum taci \u00een fa\u0163a unei femei? Aici nu mai conteaz\u0103 foarte tare, important e s\u0103 mi\u015fti u\u015for, aproape imperceptibil, capul de sus \u00een jos \u015fi de jos \u00een sus. Femeile au alergie la NU, un da t\u0103cut face c\u00e2t 365 de cuvinte.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 ai \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 un prieten, cu probleme, cel mai bine e s\u0103 taci, altfel orice spui se poate \u00eentoarce \u00eempotriva ta. Nu scoate un sunet \u015fi prietenul va interpreta mu\u0163enia ca pe o mare confirmare a drept\u0103\u0163ii lui.<\/p>\n<p>La locul de munc\u0103 t\u0103cerea e sf\u00e2nt\u0103. Nici nu avansezi, dar nici nu retrogradezi.<\/p>\n<p>De multe ori mi s-a spus c\u0103 \u015ftiu s\u0103 ascult. Aiureli, \u00een 90% din cazuri nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 absolut deloc ce spune cel aflat \u00een fa\u0163a mea. Tac, mi\u015fc u\u015for capul, uneori screm c\u00e2te un z\u00e2mbet \u015fi e toat\u0103 lumea mul\u0163umit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care aproape nimeni nu e dispus s\u0103 ia \u00een seam\u0103 vreun sfat\u00a0 e un consum inutil de energie s\u0103 deschizi gura.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 a\u0163i t\u0103cut c\u00e2t a\u0163i parcurs aceste r\u00e2nduri efortul meu e pe deplin justificat.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=eZGWQauQOAQ\">Sound Of Silence &#8211; Simon &amp; Garfunkel<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cemi rafinez t\u0103cerea. O diversific, t\u0103cere de birou, de strad\u0103, de dormitor, de petrecere, de diminea\u0163\u0103, de sear\u0103. Prea mul\u0163i oameni tac ca pro\u015ftii. Nu po\u0163i s\u0103 taci \u00een fa\u0163a unui ceai a\u015fa cum o faci \u00een fa\u0163a unui pahar de vin, \u00een primul caz \u00ee\u0163i trebuie o anumit\u0103 gravitate \u00een a nu spune nimic,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1566"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1566"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1566\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1569,"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1566\/revisions\/1569"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1566"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1566"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dedes.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1566"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}